Hi I am a 26 year old Army wife, We have 3 kids ages 1 1/2, 2 1/2, and 3 1/2.  We have been going through a really rough patch lately, we are trying to get things in order and trying to be strong for our children.  We are in debt up to our elbows and trying to make sure that our kids have everything they need..  everything that could go wrong has, I can't find a job due to a medical issue. My left side of my vocal cords is paralyzed causing me to cough  and have to clear my throat constantly aswell as have a hoarse voice.  When I apply they just look at me as if I have a major disease and I get the same " we will be in touch " everytime. I don't know what to do, I feel as if i am slowly crumbeling. My mom sent me this site and told me to give it a shot. I say my prayers every night and hope for the best.. Please let me know of any advice or if you know of anyone that may be able to help. We tried AER in the army but when we PCS'd to our current duty station we had to take out a loan through them to finish our move. Thank you for taking the time to read my post, and god bless all of you...

 Sincerely,

A fellow friend looking for the right answer